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In love with 2 men
I love my husband, but I'm also in love with a very close friend of mine, who is also married. I have no idea what to do or what's in store for my relationships with either of them. Please help!
Psychologist's answer
The appearance of tender feelings towards a close friend does not mean the end of love towards a husband. You are in love with two men and feel frustrated because you are not able to recognize who you love more and which one to choose. Try to analyze what exactly do you feel about your close friend. For example: do you feel only a physical attraction or it’s a much deeper feeling? Has it been a combination of circumstances having your friend in your vicinity so this closeness has led to this? Do you think you are in love with your friend because you miss the excitement in life and because your marriage is monotonous, even though you love your husband? Think about how much your family is important in your life. Faithfulness is a matter of decision. What is your oppinion on this issue? This way of thinking should help you to decide which of your two partners to choose. What is the best for you and what to do, you will know on your own.. Being in a relationship with two partners is not easy at all. It requires tremendous energy and pretty good time management. In addition, sooner or later a person finaly finds himself in a situation where he must choose between partners, when the decision to be in a relationship with one partner excludes the possibility to be in a relationship with the another one.
Psychologist's answer
The appearance of tender feelings towards a close friend does not mean the end of love towards a husband. You are in love with two men and feel frustrated because you are not able to recognize who you love more and which one to choose. Try to analyze what exactly do you feel about your close friend. For example: do you feel only a physical attraction or it’s a much deeper feeling? Has it been a combination of circumstances having your friend in your vicinity so this closeness has led to this? Do you think you are in love with your friend because you miss the excitement in life and because your marriage is monotonous, even though you love your husband? Think about how much your family is important in your life. Faithfulness is a matter of decision. What is your oppinion on this issue? This way of thinking should help you to decide which of your two partners to choose. What is the best for you and what to do, you will know on your own.. Being in a relationship with two partners is not easy at all. It requires tremendous energy and pretty good time management. In addition, sooner or later a person finaly finds himself in a situation where he must choose between partners, when the decision to be in a relationship with one partner excludes the possibility to be in a relationship with the another one.
i have a jealous boyfriend
I have a boyfriend who is really great and I care about him very much. The only thing that bothers me is his jealousy. He is prone to jealous outbursts and scenes. It bothers him when I wear short skirt, when I go out with my friends, when he can not get me on the phone ... FULL TEXT
what is going to be with my relationship?
I am in relationship with a ten years older man. He is divorced and has two grown up children. But he lives in the same house where his ex-wife and children live. They live on the ground floor, and he is upstairs, in a single room and have separate bathroom... FULL TEXT
